Might have been - gosh that could be missed by anyone. However, we think we found another culprit. On an extensive search, determined to get whatever it was we found, yes, another rhodedendron - it was in amongst some rocks and dead grass and a large dead branch of broom. It had about 6 spindly stems, was completely pathetic looking and struggling to grow about 6 inches tall, but had some fresh munch marks on the top leaves. Gutted we didn't find it before, thought we had looked everywhere. Its practically nothing to look at as a plant but was probably enough to do the job. My poor healthy beautiful girl. It's taught us a very hard lesson.
Thank you woolyval, I do suspect that the possible docks were eaten by our geese who are always in that area.